Become the Woman You Aspire to Be
✗ Tired of beating yourself up?
✗ Feel like you’re living somebody else’s life?
✗ Are you stuck, unmotivated, and bored?
✓ Want to have more clarity to go after the life you want?
✓ Ready to ditch all excuses and start living life to the fullest?
✓ Need someone to keep you accountable and help you stay focused along the way?
I’m going to be straight with you: self-work isn’t easy — and it’s definitely not for everyone
It’s not for the faint of heart.
It’s going to get messy.
I’m going to make you question everything you think you know about yourself — until you rediscover who you really are.
I know there are many gurus, coaches, and speakers out there who claim to have quick fixes for you. I don’t. What I have is better: I know and believe that you have all the solutions within yourself. And I’m going to help you find them.
I’m here to keep you from falling when it gets tough.
I’m here to care for you and believe that you are enough.
I’m here to remind you that you’re capable of so much more than you’re giving yourself the permission to be.
I’m Coach Simona. I’ve helped many women just like you become who they aspire to be with my three-step Clarity System™:
1. Raise your consciousness
2. Boost your confidence
3. Overcome codependency
As a woman, I know how hard it can be to be your true and authentic self.
Women today have so many layers of identity: being a partner, a mother, a daughter, a boss, an employee, a sister, a friend.
We carry all of these limiting beliefs about ourselves: being too much/not being enough; being too lazy/working too much; being too sensitive or acting selfish; being a good girl/feeling bad and undeserving of love.
As a result, nothing we ever do feels enough! We close our hearts to the people around us, start to see the world as a hostile place, and lose touch with the radiance and joy of being alive.
In my personal and professional experience, I’ve seen it all: women who have been cheated on and women who cheat on their partners; women who have kids and women who prefer to leave their family or not to raise one at all; women who struggle with addictions and women who take care of addicts at home.
And you know what I’ve found? We are really not that different from each other.
We all want someone to see us for who we truly are.
We all want to feel loved, accepted, and appreciated.
We all want to heal our wounds from the past and live free of the burden that we’ve been carrying on our shoulders.
Here’s how you and I are going to change that
We’ll use my three-step Clarity System™ to empower you to become the woman you’ve always aspired to be:
–> Raise Your Consciousness
–> Boost your Confidence
–> Overcome Codependency
First, we’ll work on raising your consciousness
You know the inner critic. That negative voice that likes to pick at you, especially in those moments when you’re feeling down? We all have it. That’s is your negative self-talk. Becoming aware of it is the first step to raising your consciousness.
It’s better to befriend yourself, than to go against yourself.
We’ll work on helping you become best friends with your own mind. After we discover all the negative things you say to yourself, we’re going to work on developing a healthier relationship with yourself.
You will raise your consciousness by getting rid of your limiting beliefs, reframing your negative thought patterns, getting back in touch your body and feelings, taking out the trash from the past that’s been bothering you, and moving on with life.
This is step one.
Then, we’ll focus on boosting your confidence
Now that you’re no longer sabotaging yourself, we’ll focus on accepting and loving yourself for exactly who you are.
We’re all familiar with these confidence-wrecking experiences: the never-ending comparisons with other women; the toxic relationships with partners that are completely wrong for you; the question that haunts you at night: Will I ever be good enough?
The bad news is, you’ve let others tell you how to feel about yourself for way too long.
The good news is, very soon you will truly believe that you are enough.
Here’s how we’re going to change that.
We’ll work on developing self-care routines to reconnect with yourself. You will learn how to set healthy boundaries with others by unapologetically saying ‘NO’ to the things that no longer serve you — and you will give yourself permission to relax and enjoy all the beautiful things life has to offer.
Last but not least, we’ll help you overcome codependency
Now that you know who you are and you’re not afraid to show your beautiful authentic self to the world, we’ll tackle the silent relationship killer: codependency.
Every relationship in your life needs three things to thrive: love, respect, and space.
We’ve all been there: thinking that if you love someone, you have to constantly shower them with love and affection. The funny thing is, the moment you start making that special someone the center of your universe, everything slowly starts to fall apart.
Because you’re abandoning yourself. We, women, are natural caregivers: we want to love, nurture, and take care of our partners. But by doing so, we neglect our own needs and abandon ourselves.
Your needs and wants should be your number one priority, not something you put under the carpet for ‘when the time is right’. The time will never be right unless you decide to work on the most important relationship you’ll ever have in your life – the one with yourself.
Overcoming codependency will help you feel more tuned into your own feelings and you will learn to trust, respect and rely on yourself as an individual. We will work on integrating every neglected part of yourself so you won’t feel the need to rely on others for external validation, and you will learn how to trust yourself again and feel whole for the first time in your life.
“That all sounds great, Simona, but I’ve tried X, Y, and Z — and they all didn’t work!”
I have no doubt that you’ve been working on getting better for a long time, beautiful. I know I have for years. I bought all the books, went to all the seminars, had all the therapy and coaching. That’s why I’m going to share with you something that I’ve never shared online before (and even most of my friends don’t know):
I hated myself for many years. I struggled with low self-esteem, I had panic attacks, I entered toxic relationships with men just so I could feel validated and pretend to feel loved. The truth is, I didn’t. I couldn’t allow myself to open up to the possibility of love because I was too afraid of getting hurt. I didn’t believe in myself because I couldn’t accept myself as I was.And I had all these disturbing never-ending negative thoughts that kept me from pursuing my dreams.
I no longer suffer from panic attacks, I’ve slowly went from ‘being unworthy’ to ‘being okay with myself’ and today, that little girl who couldn’t even dare to dream about falling in love is now a happily married woman.
One of my biggest accomplishment is that I don’t let my mind dictate the way I feel about myself. Not anymore.
And neither should you!
You know all those stories you tell yourself at night? The anxiety of having to live another day not knowing what’s wrong with you? The critical, mean, nasty words you say to yourself that you’re even embarrassed to share with someone else?
It’s time to ditch all of them.
It’s time to stand up for yourself and become your greatest ambassador.
It’s time to meet the real you. And learn to love her unconditionally.
Here’s What Our Time Together Will Be Like
We’ll talk every week on the phone (or Skype) for 3 months. You’ll get 12 private coaching sessions + my email support at all times. We’ll talk for 60 minutes at a time and I’ll guide you through the process, so you have nothing to worry about.
What will we work on?
As I mentioned in the beginning, we’re going to work on the three components of my Clarity System™:
–> Raise your Consciousness
–> Boost your Confidence
–> Overcome Codependency
Each month will be dedicated to one of The Big 3 C-s: the first month, we will work on raising your consciousness; the second, on boosting your confidence; and the third on overcoming codependency.
For each of them, we will use the 3-step framework that has proven to give my clients results:
Step 1: Define the obstacles that are preventing you from being the woman you aspire to be;
Step 2: Make an action plan to overcome each and every one of them;
Step 3: Take deliberate action every week and have my full support throughout these 3 months both as your personal cheerleader and accountability partner.
Although I have a proven framework, our work together will be tailored specifically to your needs and your vision of what you want to achieve.
What will happen at the end of the 3-month program?
If you show up weekly and follow the action steps we’re going to set for you, by the end of these 12 weeks you’ll have developed a healthier, more loving and nourishing relationship with yourself.
Ready to take the first step?